I'm in my mid-20's but still never kissed a girl yet. Is this my destiny?

I'm slowly losing hair and it might be obvious in like 10 to 15 years just like my dad when he got past 40. I'm only 5'8 tall and pretty much all girls ranging from short girls to tall girls want a guy at least 5'10. I'm not rich either. I'm lean and athletic but not jacked and completely all muscles which girls love. I was sexually molested by a guy when I was 7 which I never really told anyone so sometimes I wonder if I'm destined to never go out with a girl.