Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Need help with friends at school, please?

High school is a *****. People do change, really everyone changes (old friends included) it happens. I don't even know how many different sets of friends I went through all throughout high school that changed and drifted in their own direction. I had about a year or two where I really didn't have anyone. Spent a lot of time at home by myself. There are a lot of people out there that are more different than you think they are. I met a lot of guys that are like brothers to me and they were completely not what I was used to. I didn't have to change myself per se, but I opened myself up to new ideas and lifestyles. As far as people boring you, just go into it not caring what they think of you, high school drama never matters in the end, but happiness is important. My advise to you is to keep positive about it, sometimes the harder you try, the harder it becomes. Chances are, there are people that share your interests like your old friends and who knows, you may find what others are doing interesting if you keep an open mind. Join a club or a sport, it never hurts to try, you may just find someone there that you can relate to that you didnt think you would. I feel for you. It sucks when you reach that age because people start to find the vices in the world and it affects everyone differently. I mean, I don't know what you are into or how big/where your school is, but just keep positive and don't give a damn about what other people think, stay social and if it doesnt work with some people, find others. High schools are full of cliques and different kinds of people. You don't have to change yourself to what you think others want to see. Actually, being yourself puts out a flag for others that share interests to see and friendships may end up falling into your lap. I hope this helps a little, like I said, I have been in similar places, but I don't know your situation that well to give you great advice. Oh, and btw your link leads users to their own page (not yours). Hope this helps a little... Just be yourself and keep positive. Find a balance and don't worry about friend-finding so much. You seem like a social kid, just be vocal and jump in to conversations if you can with different people... My biggest problem was that people found me to be cocky, if you are positive and pleasant to be around, people should invite you right in.

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